44: Bawdy Storytelling and the Folsom Slave

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Slave Marcello at FolsomWe got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays!  This episode is a double feature:

We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date.

As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others.  He talks about the porn industry, being a professional slave and performing in front of an audience.

All the images from both event are available in our Kasidie group, since that has proven the best way to keep the kids out.

42: Vintage BDSM

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For your listening pleasure, we have a bunch of different subjects.

Jon and SinD head to Los Angeles again to hang out with Mister Bill.   While Jon gets busy with one of his favorite play partners, the rest of the gang  talks about the history of BDSM in L.A. This goes all the way back to the early days of "Society of Janus", "Presidium" and  Treshold, when it was just a couple of kinky people playing around in a rented X-rated movie studio.

We lured the makers of "SportSheets" (we interviewed and tested the product previously) to Dragons gate.

We are taking the violet wand to Burning Man to zap people in the dessert!

There are plenty of other random discussions, gummy bears and reviews of Jon's performance as a swinger.

master of oBill interviews Ernest Greene (and his wife, Nina Hartley) about his newest book, "Master of O" and they trade anecdotes from way back in time (around when they invented rope).

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41: NiN2015: The kinky single guy at the swingers convention

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Villain Jon heads to one of the largest swingers events in the country, to spread the gospel of bondage and kink.  We debrief with Brian and Tangerine from Tangerines Dream about the event the parties, the "poker runs", dances and events.

Jon talks about the workshops, demonstrations of flogging, electric play  in the dungeon and the problems of teaching an entire room of crazy swingers to tie each-other up.

His shenanigans were also documented by "We Gotta Thing" and "Swinger Diaries".

Check out Bob's interview to find out more about "Naugthy in Nawlins", or sign up now to reserve your spot for the next event!

Find Tangerine on twitter as @TangerinesDreamLtd via email as tangerine@tangerinesdream.com  (Hit her up about parties in the bay area or workouts!)

 

 

40: Candy's Adventure Time

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Jon and SinD do a bedcast debriefing about the visit to a swinger party by "CandY's Adventures".  There was a lot going on including surprise foursomes, demos, electricity play and flogging.

We are going to Naugthy in Nawlins! Sign up now or miss it! (We interviewed Bob, the organizer previously)

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38: Naughty in Nawlins and on boats

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We had a long chat with Bob Hannaford (half of the infamous "Bob & Tess" team), famous for creating spectacular events and cruises.

Bob talks about the swinging lifestyle, being naked (pretty much a requirement to survive in New Orleans) and having a great time at a convention. They stared with having 100 couples, now their events welcome more than 800 couples each.  Instead of creating one big event, they create a cluster of smaller activities, so that everybody can find their own thing.

The culture of New Orleans is very open to all walks of life.  Bob has been organizing a parade during Naughty in N’awlins for over 10 years, which has morphed into a "swingers pride parade".  It almost looks like a sexy political rally.

The only people who make less money when the swingers take over the own are the strippers.  But they do have strip-club take-overs, to great effect!

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37: 2 Girls, 1 City: Practical polyamory in London

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SinD and Victoria share their hazy recollections of a weekend together in London and debrief their raw feelings, straight from the heart: The fun of of partying, and the messiness of polyamory.

Subjects discussed:
  • Signing up for OkCupid, getting too many responses to manage
  • Getting the wrong address
  • Practical polyamory also involves talking to the wife and telling dinosaur adventures to the kids .
  • Rocking out in London dance clubs
  • 3-way make-outs
  • SinD hunting 18 year-olds, and going into "Wicked tigger" mode
  • Trying to dampen sexual frustration with Mc Donald's food (Hint: It doesn't work!)
  • Leaving the kids with blue balls
  • Jealousy (Or just trying to fit in)
  • Organizing threesomes can be more complicated than initially expected
  • The girls define their sexuality as "situational"
  • How abuse as a child impacts the feelings and decisions later in life
  • A relationship with a married man
  • Lessons learned and tips for those starting in polyamory

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