"Me Submit? Never!"
I once said that.
I can tell you that every man I know has the same reaction when they listen to the Puppies and Massages episode of Bliss Bringers. They cannot believe that I would try having a submissive experience. In general, I have a very dominant personality and am the type to take control in almost every situation. I admit that there was a time that I thought only weak-willed or meek people could surrender to such an experience.
I've discussed this topic with many people and that seems to be a common misconception, especially with people outside of the swing lifestyle. BDSM is still not very mainstream despite the huge success of 50 Shades of Grey. That book is a sad misrepresentation of BDSM and what it is that fuels the enjoyment of surrender or appeal of domination.
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Exploring polyamory, BDSM and kink in the swinging lifestyle.
We catch up with Mr. and Misses Puppy (see previous episodes for background). The first interview is right after a hotel playdate with Mr, Misses Puppy, and L a.k.a. "Mr. Puppy's new toy".
In second part, debrief with "Nightowl", the poor massage therapist (and general fun kinky guy) that SinD corrupted.
We go over the difference between the different lifestyles: swinging versus polyamory, BDSM communication styles versus those used in the swinging lifestyle. Jon explains and demos some of his secret techniques on air on Misses Puppy.
Yes, there was wine consumed during the taping. 🙂
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We had an interesting discussion with Lee Harrington, author of an eclectic set of books. His latest is "Traversing Gender", which provides a "newbies guide to other genders", with many references throughout the world and history. It also reviews the differences between all the various terms like "transgender", "transsexual", "trans", "intersex" and a multitude of others.
As a transgender person, the realities of "play" in both the swinging or BDSM lifestyles is completely different and very challenging. Lee explains the differences in treatment of transgender folk throughout the years, and his own transition.
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The entire team jumps on the big bed in the Captain's catamaran in the Bahamas. We catch up on what everybody has been doing.
If you like a cruise with sexy swingers, we recommend "Couple Cruises".
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We take it down a notch and review the year 2015 and make our plans for 2016, which includes the BeachBody cruise, Naugthy in Nawlins and other fun swinger activities.
The team reports in from "SantaCon" San Francisco, where our gang tried to convert some vanillas during the wild "city takeover". First we go shopping in at the BDSM flea-market at the Citadel for new toys, then we take over "Divas", which is a cross-dressers bar, and create havoc and spanking demonstrations. It is amazing how quickly you can get people on state to get their butts spanked and flogged once you give them a few drinks and an excuse.
After all that the entire group crashes at the hotel, and we let Mr. Bill run wild again with the recorder. He gets (those who haven't crashed yet) to review their best stories.
We also answer a couple of listener e-mails:
- A listener in Tasmania whats to find places to get their kink on locally.
- A gay/bi male asks about swinger etiquette and how to prevent others from freaking out when there are body parts all over the bed. We give some practical tips and tie it back to communicating with the other players before swinging times happen. If you are going to try something like a double penetration, some of the guys parts are going to touch sooner or later. It's physics!
- He also wonders about bringing family members into a swinging party, which is something we have seen happen on rarely: Once a sister-sister combo (For the record: Jon only played with 1 of them) and once somebody bringing their aunt.
If you have any questions or comments, send them in and we will answer them on-air!
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Couples Cruises : Swinger holidays like you've never experienced.
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We got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays! This episode is a double feature:
We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date.
As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others. He talks about the porn industry, being a professional slave and performing in front of an audience.
All the images from both event are available in our Kasidie group, since that has proven the best way to keep the kids out.
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Our gang hits "Fetish and Fantasy" again in Las Vegas.
There is a lot of spanking and flogging going on stage, as usual.
This year, we have some extra complications:
- A gang of "hashers" takes over the hotel and causes havoc while our gang is trying to recover from their own naughty but exhausting activities
- Mr. Bill brought along a vanilla friend, who has no idea what is going on. She gets dunked in our pool of debauchery, while we hope she doesn't drown in the craziness.
Spoiler: She does fine!
We even interview her before and after her experience, which leads to interesting insight into how outsiders view the world of swinging and BDSM, and how the view changes after exposure.