Bless the magical unicorns who have integrity and high standards for themselves and for their Lifestyle couples.
I just returned home from a two day business trip. I travel on business regularly. I'm one of those "I bring home the bacon...fry it up in the pan...but I'll neva' eva let you forget...that you're the maaaan..cause I'm a woooman..w_o_m_a_n! 🙂
Sorry-I digressed!
This past business trip I experienced a Lifestyle moment that made me smile and cry at the same time and it was all because of a Magical Unicorn.
Here's some background to this story: Mr SFCuties and I met a newbie Unicorn through mutual LL friends a few months ago. She's energetic, sweet, mature, intelligent, all wrapped up with a warm heart & smile.
She runs regularly with the same LL friends as we do so we've had an opportunity to play together at Twist(San Francisco Lifestyle Club).
Last month we invited her to our house for a hot tubbing evening. We'd just had the hot tub installed a few days prior and this was going to be the first time we'd invited a lifestyle lover(s) into our home.
The evening with the Unicorn was a BLAST! We couldn't have asked for a more enjoyable night together! (I'll save those details for another blog entry 🙂 )
The evening was so HOT that we decided to go back for seconds-hoping the Unicorn would bless us with another night. The stars aligned and we had a follow up Hot Tub session which turned into another sex fest adventure between the 3 of us...HOT HOT HOT-Caliente HOT!
This past week while traveling out of state, I get this text message on my phone from the Magical Unicorn. She called Mr. SFCuties earlier in the day to schedule a time to pick up her computer he was fixing for her(You know what they say, Geeks make better lovers 🙂 )
She was hoping to drop by the house around 6:30 that evening if it would fit in our schedules. Mr SFCuties explained it would be no problem if she dropped by the house but it would have to be a "vanilla" visit because Mrs SFCuties was traveling. He then went onto remind her of our "Lifestyle Couple" rules and that we only play together because its more enjoyable to watch the love making between the 3-(+)4 of us.
The Magical Unicorn texted me on how happy & refreshing it was to meet a loving & honest couple because too many times, married men try to take advantage of the situation without a "hall pass" from their beloved wife.
I was shocked to hear so many lifestyle couples actually committed adultery...and that's how I see it, Sex without permission from your partner is cheating!
She found Mr SFCuties adorable because of his "strict" rules" & caring nature. This is where I started to cry because at that moment, I realized once again-I have the world's greatest man and how wonderful it is to be able to travel without ever worrying he may cheat and destroy our beautiful world together. I LOVE being married to Mr SFCuties!
I believe in rewarding good behavior so we're heading to a "get your groove" on 70's party this weekend 🙂
Our Magical Unicorn went onto say, she would be honored to play with us again because of the bond and trust we have as a couple and with her.
A BIG HUG to all of you upstanding Magical Unicorns and SHAME on you cheating couples! (waving the index finger)