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Part 2 of our Naughty in Nawlins visit:
We interviewed Organic Loven and a bunch of visitors, each with their own vision on swinging, kink and sexuality, and close it up by dragging the couple from "Ecstatic Hearts" into our bed for interview on tantra, sacred sexuality, and improving and extending your orgasms thru specific techniques and vocalisations.
Want to join in the fun at NiN? Make sure to grab your room before they sell out!
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During Naughty in Nawlins 2017 (one of the largest swingers events, in New Orleans), misses Puppy and Jon ran into our instructor for the "erotic wrestling" class. She turned out to very cute, great a giving lapdances and an all-round awesome person. We sat down and chatted about kink, polyamory, bi-sexuality, penis size, wrestling, stripping (including "pole burn") and porn.
Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and writes about sex work, queerness and non-monogamy for Cosmopolitan, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, and more. She can frequently be found marathoning Law & Order: SVU under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is. Visit her on Twitter @andreshakti, on FB as “Andre Shakti”, and at
Shout-out to podcast "Two or More to Tango"
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The entire team jumps on the big bed in the Captain's catamaran in the Bahamas. We catch up on what everybody has been doing.
If you like a cruise with sexy swingers, we recommend "Couple Cruises".
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We got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays! This episode is a double feature:
We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date.
As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others. He talks about the porn industry, being a professional slave and performing in front of an audience.
All the images from both event are available in our Kasidie group, since that has proven the best way to keep the kids out.
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For your listening pleasure, we have a bunch of different subjects.
Jon and SinD head to Los Angeles again to hang out with Mister Bill. While Jon gets busy with one of his favorite play partners, the rest of the gang talks about the history of BDSM in L.A. This goes all the way back to the early days of "Society of Janus", "Presidium" and Treshold, when it was just a couple of kinky people playing around in a rented X-rated movie studio.
We lured the makers of "SportSheets" (we interviewed and tested the product previously) to Dragons gate.
We are taking the violet wand to Burning Man to zap people in the dessert!
There are plenty of other random discussions, gummy bears and reviews of Jon's performance as a swinger.
Bill interviews Ernest Greene (and his wife, Nina Hartley) about his newest book, "Master of O" and they trade anecdotes from way back in time (around when they invented rope).
The resort was never exactly slow, but as Lisa sat down for a late lunch in the cantina she marked that it wasn't nearly as lively as it was last night.
She scanned the menu that the waiter had left, musing to herself over his tanned skin and athletic build, wondering what Bob would think if she told him she wanted to kiss the waiter!
The lunch choices all looked delightful but she settled on half a sandwich with a house salad. She didn't know exactly how long Bob would be at the conference today and she didn't want to be too full of he wanted to go to dinner.
She normally ate earlier but she had slept in, the sounds of the waves crashing against the shore like a lullaby to her. When she had finally woke, there was a note on the nightstand from Bob. Seems her lovely husband had scheduled her for a pedicure and a massage in the spa. Continue reading
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Villain Jon heads to one of the largest swingers events in the country, to spread the gospel of bondage and kink. We debrief with Brian and Tangerine from Tangerines Dream about the event the parties, the "poker runs", dances and events.
Jon talks about the workshops, demonstrations of flogging, electric play in the dungeon and the problems of teaching an entire room of crazy swingers to tie each-other up.
His shenanigans were also documented by "We Gotta Thing" and "Swinger Diaries".
Check out Bob's interview to find out more about "Naugthy in Nawlins", or sign up now to reserve your spot for the next event!
Find Tangerine on twitter as @TangerinesDreamLtd via email as [email protected] (Hit her up about parties in the bay area or workouts!)
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We had a long chat with Bob Hannaford (half of the infamous "Bob & Tess" team), famous for creating spectacular events and cruises.
Bob talks about the swinging lifestyle, being naked (pretty much a requirement to survive in New Orleans) and having a great time at a convention. They stared with having 100 couples, now their events welcome more than 800 couples each. Instead of creating one big event, they create a cluster of smaller activities, so that everybody can find their own thing.
The culture of New Orleans is very open to all walks of life. Bob has been organizing a parade during Naughty in N’awlins for over 10 years, which has morphed into a "swingers pride parade". It almost looks like a sexy political rally.
The only people who make less money when the swingers take over the own are the strippers. But they do have strip-club take-overs, to great effect!
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SinD and Victoria share their hazy recollections of a weekend together in London and debrief their raw feelings, straight from the heart: The fun of of partying, and the messiness of polyamory.
- Signing up for OkCupid, getting too many responses to manage
- Getting the wrong address
- Practical polyamory also involves talking to the wife and telling dinosaur adventures to the kids .
- Rocking out in London dance clubs
- 3-way make-outs
- SinD hunting 18 year-olds, and going into "Wicked tigger" mode
- Trying to dampen sexual frustration with Mc Donald's food (Hint: It doesn't work!)
- Leaving the kids with blue balls
- Jealousy (Or just trying to fit in)
- Organizing threesomes can be more complicated than initially expected
- The girls define their sexuality as "situational"
- How abuse as a child impacts the feelings and decisions later in life
- A relationship with a married man
- Lessons learned and tips for those starting in polyamory
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Another "recap episode", where SinD and Jon try to remember all the adventures since last time! First up is BondCon, a new conference at "The Armory", home of "Kink.com". We meet various famous educators, but the misses was most impressed with "Thraje" and Cléo Dubois, and the single-tail whipping skills of "Disciple".
We visit Folsom Street Faire and interview random victims (to great amusement). It turns out that bi-males do exist!
Misses also adopted a (human submissive) pet, and took her to a swingers party. This put a spotlight on the differences between protocols and appropriate behavior between the swinger and BDSM/kink communities. In the later, there is a more strict enforcement of the "ask for consent first" rule, which sometimes gets forgotten by the experienced swingers. Also, one has to make sure that one scene does not take so long that one doesn't get laid. "Cock-blocking" may have occurred, and Jon got the woman with "worlds most impressive ass" in trouble.
We use Google Calendar to schedule play-dates/training sessions. Does that mean we are now poly?
The Swing Wife (Podfaded)