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SinD, Reverend Jon, Bill and Alice hang out together in this post-action debrief bedcast. It was Alice's first visit to a BDSM dungeon (we took her to "Dragon's Gate" in Los Angeles), where she got tied up and suspended, and had all sorts of things done to her. We give our updates and review our progress in the lifestyles of BDSM, Swinging and polyamory.
Quick note: We are going to "Nawty in New Orleans"! There are a few rooms left, so if you want to party with us and a few thousand of our closest swinger friends, sign up now!
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Jon and SinD do a bedcast debriefing about the visit to a swinger party by "CandY's Adventures". There was a lot going on including surprise foursomes, demos, electricity play and flogging.
We are going to Naugthy in Nawlins! Sign up now or miss it! (We interviewed Bob, the organizer previously)
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In our brand-spanking new Youtube channel, Jon explains how to hide the hook that is needed to hang your sex/kinky furniture (like a sex swing, bondage ring or suspension gear) and make it totally invisible to your snooping family members or friends.
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Most importantly: What tips do you have that can benefit the community? Post it in the comments.Sharing is caring!
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Another "recap episode", where SinD and Jon try to remember all the adventures since last time! First up is BondCon, a new conference at "The Armory", home of "Kink.com". We meet various famous educators, but the misses was most impressed with "Thraje" and Cléo Dubois, and the single-tail whipping skills of "Disciple".
We visit Folsom Street Faire and interview random victims (to great amusement). It turns out that bi-males do exist!
Misses also adopted a (human submissive) pet, and took her to a swingers party. This put a spotlight on the differences between protocols and appropriate behavior between the swinger and BDSM/kink communities. In the later, there is a more strict enforcement of the "ask for consent first" rule, which sometimes gets forgotten by the experienced swingers. Also, one has to make sure that one scene does not take so long that one doesn't get laid. "Cock-blocking" may have occurred, and Jon got the woman with "worlds most impressive ass" in trouble.
We use Google Calendar to schedule play-dates/training sessions. Does that mean we are now poly?
The Swing Wife (Podfaded)
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Jon and Sind are back from "Dark Odyssey: Surrender", a 3 day event in San Francisco with training, demos and play-parties with the who's-who of kink. They visited classes on "fisting", "scene negotiation", "rough sex" and "erotic publishing", which are just a small part of what was available.
After Mistress SinD gets her first take of receiving a whipping, we interview "Zemis", master (and instructor) of the single-tail whips and various other sorts of mindfucks. We discuss mediation by whipping, perverted clowns and sonic booms.
We talk latex with Penny from Lust Designs: how she designs the outfits (from mermaids to bowling shirts), how to pick them, how to lube up and get into them.
Every good kinkster needs a kilt (or a couple), so we hang out with PD Kilts and try out their warez, so we learn about the different styles and weights of kilts.
brings their own arsenal of toys, from "fluffy" to "mean and nasty", including our first-ever floggers.
And if you are looking for some classy rope for your bondage scenes, do look at the colorful options of "Rainbow rope
schools us on canes, their usage and the different styles you can get: from light-up canes to canes with your favorite football team or cartoon character. These are not your old school teachers canes; they are made from various high-tech materials like carbon fiber, fiber glass, aluminum, stainless steal depending on your need.
Mistress SinD has a blast testing out the new Violet wand accessories from Big Head Studios
. The custom electrodes they create range from "festive" to "impressive" to "darn that left a mark!". We discuss the various unique types of electrodes, the history of the violet wand, and the fun of zapping people in the balls.
Los Swingers, a podcast in Spanish and English about a couple's adventures in the swinging lifestyle. They also do great jello shots. Update 2015: Sadly, the podcast no longer exists.
Also: During playtime, we tied up Miss Penzer
on a barrel and took turns smacking her. She liked it.
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We finally get to interview "Boris and Doris", the infamous naughty podcasters/sex toy makers/ice-hockey players and Mario kart champions!
We talk about everything from swinging, shiny stainless steel toys customized for Doris's vagina, custom floggers, and the adventures in raising children with inquisitive minds.
Find them on Kasidie /Fetlife : BorisNDoris
In the Live Luscious Lab, we test drive new toys made by Boris and Doris: the Gemini and a new modified version of the Capricorn. Our stunt bunny, "Cat" shares her smiling feedback.
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Get ready for a barrage of tips & tricks and lessons learned by the Bliss Bringers team. That's right, we mess up so you don't have to!
In the luscious labs we do a live review of a female condom. Our team does extensive testing and analysis. For science.
Finally, we remind everybody we will be hitting up catalystcon west.
Do you have any tips to share?
Warning: Explicit content
Swinger parties are sex parties. We all know that. But even if everyone knows what will ultimately happen, someone needs to start the action.
It's not always easy to know when or how to get things going. Sometimes, people are coy, maybe not wanting to seem overly eager (why not?). We are not all equally gifted at getting things going.
We've been to a few house parties in our local scene where you've got a whole bunch of sexy people in a room, drinking and chatting and chatting and drinking. And a couple of hours later you still have a whole bunch of sexy people hanging out, chatting and drinking, drinking and chatting.
No one wants to make the first move. Or a couple of people slip away quietly upstairs, which is fine, but for some of us (me), the real fun happens when the sex starts happening right there and everyone is a part of it.
Slipping away to another room might have its place, but it's a sex party, dammit. Where’s the orgy? Yes, flirting and foreplay is hot. It makes me wet, gets me excited about the prospect of who I have my eye on to play with later. It's all a part of the fun. But let’s assume that most of us want to move on from appetizers to the main course and dessert.
Recently, on an eight day sailing vacation with five sexy swinger couples, a sixty foot catamaran, and day after day of pristine waters, beautiful coves, and perfect winds, we experimented with a few different ways to get the party started. Continue reading