I first heard of "try-sexuality" from Midori. It means someone who is willing to try new things (I think she said she was willing to try anything! I'm not quite that try-sexual).
The lifestyle is a great playground for hearing about and trying out new things. We introduced the idea of the Luscious Lab as our place to experiment, to test out stuff we've read about or heard about, from toys to techniques to new kinds of kinky play.
It's a fun way for the Captain and I (and whoever else would like to join us) to get adventurous and learn something along the way. So far we've been pretty tame. We experimented with the technique Timothy Ferriss writes about in the 4-Hour Body, designed to bring on a 15-minute orgasm in women. It works and we love it. Listen to Episode 1 if you want to hear our full report.
We also tried out the recommended approach to a mind-blowing blow job, as described in Marcie Michaels and Marie Desalle's Blow Him Away. It was a little more challenging, mostly because there's a lot more to remember. But I'm determined to continue on that, mostly because I am a recent convert on the blow job front.
I used to hate giving them, mostly because I was lacking technique and didn't know what I was doing. Then, about three years ago I got inspired by a couple we met at Desire. She went from good to great in the blow job department. I can do this! I thought at the time. I took mine from below average to pretty good. And now I'm working on taking them from pretty good to great. So expect more lab reports on that. For the first report, you can check out the lab in Episode 2 of the Blissbringers podcast.
I like reading and trying out the stuff we read. Right now, I'm reading Joseph Bean's book on flogging, so you can expect a lab down the road that tests out the techniques he recommends.
This weekend we're going to do a toy lab. We've had a we-vibe for a few years. Despite the amazon rave reviews about it, we've been underwhelmed by it. But I'm guessing we just haven't given it a good enough go.
This morning I found an article on-line at the Positive Passions website with ELEVEN different ways to use the we-vibe. So clearly we have not exhausted its potential and it's time to get into that lab and experiment.
If you have any suggestions for the Luscious Lab, sexy stuff that you are interested in trying yourself but want to let us give it a test-run first (someone has to do it!), please send in your suggestions.
You can put them in the comment section after this post, send me an email at [email protected], leave us a voice mail message, or tell us in person if you happen to run into us at a party or on the beach at Desire.
Guest lab partners, assistants, and test subjects are always welcome. 😉