This story is a fairytale but not the conventional kind. It is a love story of sorts, yes I said love. As I wrote about my Magical Surrender I had no idea that my heart would surrender. I had no ideal that I would fall in love with this man who has shown me so many new things. I have had play partners and closeness with others in the lifestyle but this is different in so many ways.
When I met Jon from Bliss Bringers, I felt the need to run from him. I don’t know if it was watching him as he was in his Dom mode or just the incredible amount of energy I felt around him that frightened me. I felt I wanted to stay away from him but I also felt this pull like gravity.
My intrigue started in 2015 and has yet to wane in 2017. We were both drawn, compelled even, to chat almost daily at first and then daily as our friendship progressed. I never imagined that my friendship with him would lead me into such a wonderful relationship and a deep soulful love. His honesty, integrity, knowledge and the sheer chemistry grew my trust, desire and love.
After 9 months of chatting and developing a friendship we played at a party. It was fairly low key not what we would consider a "scene" in the BDSM world. The sex was explosive and I wanted more of that mix of mystery, skill and excitement, and an energy I could lose myself in. We continued to play at parties over the next few months.
I grew such trust with him that it led me to try a real scene, not just a sampler platter. I decided to really delve into BDSM and for the first time requested a solo date from my husband. On that date Jon took me places I had never been and I was hooked. Looking back, it wasn’t just the sex, or the BDSM it was the connection and incredible energy that became like a nuclear reactor in my heart.
My feelings grew and he became this amazing friend, life coach, mentor, Dom, and lover to me. I met goals I have been trying to meet for years as I mentioned in The Diet Dom. I have let go of many controls and become a more relaxed person in the process. He has given me emotional support and always encourages me in the healthiest way possible.
Neither of us were looking for a polyamorous relationship. We are both married and very in love with our spouses. We are both very open minded in the lifestyle. We both avoided labeling what we were feeling until that no longer made sense. Our spouses seemed to know before we could admit it to ourselves and each other that we had fallen in love. Mr. Puppy (my husband) and Mistress SinD (Jon’s wife) have been amazingly encouraging and supportive to us. I can’t thank them enough for their willingness to share. I love them both dearly.
Happily Every After
Finally, we let go into this great love as we both surrendered and shared our feelings with each other. The friendship, trust, and the surrender have taken me down an amazing path that has brought me to a loving relationship with my Sir, my Dom, lover and boyfriend Jon. This man I was once afraid of has become a great love and just as in a fairytale a prince to me. Our journey and story to be continued.......
P.S. Jon... I love you!
Mrs. Puppy (Pet)