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We had an interesting discussion with Lee Harrington, author of an eclectic set of books. His latest is "Traversing Gender", which provides a "newbies guide to other genders", with many references throughout the world and history. It also reviews the differences between all the various terms like "transgender", "transsexual", "trans", "intersex" and a multitude of others.
As a transgender person, the realities of "play" in both the swinging or BDSM lifestyles is completely different and very challenging. Lee explains the differences in treatment of transgender folk throughout the years, and his own transition.
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The entire team jumps on the big bed in the Captain's catamaran in the Bahamas. We catch up on what everybody has been doing.
If you like a cruise with sexy swingers, we recommend "Couple Cruises".
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We take it down a notch and review the year 2015 and make our plans for 2016, which includes the BeachBody cruise, Naugthy in Nawlins and other fun swinger activities.
The team reports in from "SantaCon" San Francisco, where our gang tried to convert some vanillas during the wild "city takeover". First we go shopping in at the BDSM flea-market at the Citadel for new toys, then we take over "Divas", which is a cross-dressers bar, and create havoc and spanking demonstrations. It is amazing how quickly you can get people on state to get their butts spanked and flogged once you give them a few drinks and an excuse.
After all that the entire group crashes at the hotel, and we let Mr. Bill run wild again with the recorder. He gets (those who haven't crashed yet) to review their best stories.
We also answer a couple of listener e-mails:
- A listener in Tasmania whats to find places to get their kink on locally.
- A gay/bi male asks about swinger etiquette and how to prevent others from freaking out when there are body parts all over the bed. We give some practical tips and tie it back to communicating with the other players before swinging times happen. If you are going to try something like a double penetration, some of the guys parts are going to touch sooner or later. It's physics!
- He also wonders about bringing family members into a swinging party, which is something we have seen happen on rarely: Once a sister-sister combo (For the record: Jon only played with 1 of them) and once somebody bringing their aunt.
If you have any questions or comments, send them in and we will answer them on-air!
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Couples Cruises : Swinger holidays like you've never experienced.
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We got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays! This episode is a double feature:
We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date.
As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others. He talks about the porn industry, being a professional slave and performing in front of an audience.
All the images from both event are available in our Kasidie group, since that has proven the best way to keep the kids out.
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For your listening pleasure, we have a bunch of different subjects.
Jon and SinD head to Los Angeles again to hang out with Mister Bill. While Jon gets busy with one of his favorite play partners, the rest of the gang talks about the history of BDSM in L.A. This goes all the way back to the early days of "Society of Janus", "Presidium" and Treshold, when it was just a couple of kinky people playing around in a rented X-rated movie studio.
We lured the makers of "SportSheets" (we interviewed and tested the product previously) to Dragons gate.
We are taking the violet wand to Burning Man to zap people in the dessert!
There are plenty of other random discussions, gummy bears and reviews of Jon's performance as a swinger.
Bill interviews Ernest Greene (and his wife, Nina Hartley) about his newest book, "Master of O" and they trade anecdotes from way back in time (around when they invented rope).
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Villain Jon heads to one of the largest swingers events in the country, to spread the gospel of bondage and kink. We debrief with Brian and Tangerine from Tangerines Dream about the event the parties, the "poker runs", dances and events.
Jon talks about the workshops, demonstrations of flogging, electric play in the dungeon and the problems of teaching an entire room of crazy swingers to tie each-other up.
His shenanigans were also documented by "We Gotta Thing" and "Swinger Diaries".
Check out Bob's interview to find out more about "Naugthy in Nawlins", or sign up now to reserve your spot for the next event!
Find Tangerine on twitter as @TangerinesDreamLtd via email as [email protected] (Hit her up about parties in the bay area or workouts!)
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Jon and SinD do a bedcast debriefing about the visit to a swinger party by "CandY's Adventures". There was a lot going on including surprise foursomes, demos, electricity play and flogging.
We are going to Naugthy in Nawlins! Sign up now or miss it! (We interviewed Bob, the organizer previously)
Help us by voting for us in the lifestyle awards!
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We got ourselves a few drinks and head for the hot tub, for our every own "bath-cast" (our homage to the Kapers), and debrief about our sexy adventures at the yearly swingers retreat. Some of the stories involve spanking and flogging. Continue reading
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We had a long chat with Bob Hannaford (half of the infamous "Bob & Tess" team), famous for creating spectacular events and cruises.
Bob talks about the swinging lifestyle, being naked (pretty much a requirement to survive in New Orleans) and having a great time at a convention. They stared with having 100 couples, now their events welcome more than 800 couples each. Instead of creating one big event, they create a cluster of smaller activities, so that everybody can find their own thing.
The culture of New Orleans is very open to all walks of life. Bob has been organizing a parade during Naughty in N’awlins for over 10 years, which has morphed into a "swingers pride parade". It almost looks like a sexy political rally.
The only people who make less money when the swingers take over the own are the strippers. But they do have strip-club take-overs, to great effect!
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SinD and Victoria share their hazy recollections of a weekend together in London and debrief their raw feelings, straight from the heart: The fun of of partying, and the messiness of polyamory.
- Signing up for OkCupid, getting too many responses to manage
- Getting the wrong address
- Practical polyamory also involves talking to the wife and telling dinosaur adventures to the kids .
- Rocking out in London dance clubs
- 3-way make-outs
- SinD hunting 18 year-olds, and going into "Wicked tigger" mode
- Trying to dampen sexual frustration with Mc Donald's food (Hint: It doesn't work!)
- Leaving the kids with blue balls
- Jealousy (Or just trying to fit in)
- Organizing threesomes can be more complicated than initially expected
- The girls define their sexuality as "situational"
- How abuse as a child impacts the feelings and decisions later in life
- A relationship with a married man
- Lessons learned and tips for those starting in polyamory