37: 2 Girls, 1 City: Practical polyamory in London

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SinD and Victoria share their hazy recollections of a weekend together in London and debrief their raw feelings, straight from the heart: The fun of of partying, and the messiness of polyamory.

Subjects discussed:
  • Signing up for OkCupid, getting too many responses to manage
  • Getting the wrong address
  • Practical polyamory also involves talking to the wife and telling dinosaur adventures to the kids .
  • Rocking out in London dance clubs
  • 3-way make-outs
  • SinD hunting 18 year-olds, and going into "Wicked tigger" mode
  • Trying to dampen sexual frustration with Mc Donald's food (Hint: It doesn't work!)
  • Leaving the kids with blue balls
  • Jealousy (Or just trying to fit in)
  • Organizing threesomes can be more complicated than initially expected
  • The girls define their sexuality as "situational"
  • How abuse as a child impacts the feelings and decisions later in life
  • A relationship with a married man
  • Lessons learned and tips for those starting in polyamory

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35: Fetish & Fantasy 2: Journey to the Dark Side

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FF2014-1 Just like last year, we hit Vegas like rockstars 🙂  First there were a bunch of spectacular swinger parties, then  we spent the night on stage flogging and spanking the most
We welcome our newest member “Victoria Secret” from across the pond, who we just lured to the dark side. There was flogging of a moose, which may or may not have been president Obama.
Like any good sports team, we had a dedicated massage therapist Bob.  He works for “No shame massage” in the LA area.   To top off all the kinky stuff, we went to see “Wicked” the musical.
Did I mention there was lots of spanking of sexy people, and various swingers parties?  Reverent Jon managed to get into trouble by having sex in the BDSM room (again!).  He tried to compensate by having being kinky in the sex room.  Let's hope the organizers agree that it cancels each-other out.
Pictures from the event can be found in our Kasidie community albums.

34: Kink.com, Folsom Street Faire, adopting a pet

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upper floor SlaveAnother  "recap episode", where SinD and Jon try to remember all the adventures since last time!  First up is BondCon, a new conference at "The Armory", home of "Kink.com".  We meet various famous educators, but the misses was most impressed with "Thraje" and Cléo Dubois, and the single-tail whipping skills of "Disciple".

We visit Folsom Street Faire and interview random victims (to great amusement).  It turns out that bi-males do exist!

Misses also adopted a (human submissive) pet, and took her to a swingers party.  This put a spotlight on the differences between protocols and appropriate behavior between the swinger and BDSM/kink communities.    In the later, there is a more strict enforcement of the "ask for consent first" rule, which sometimes gets forgotten by the experienced swingers.  Also,  one has to make sure that one scene does not take so long that one doesn't get laid.  "Cock-blocking" may have occurred, and  Jon got the woman with "worlds most impressive ass" in trouble.

We use Google Calendar to schedule play-dates/training sessions.  Does that mean we are now poly?

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33: How to set up swinger site profiles, with Emily from Kasidie

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We talk to Emily from the swinger site "Kasidie".   She explains her travels thru the swinging lifestyle and her experiences on Playboy TV, in the "Swing" show with Scott and Nicoletta.

We explain the basic principles:

  • How to pick a swinger site that works for you
  • How to look for sexy events in your neighborhood
  • Picking a good username/profile/handle
  • Getting certified as a real member
  • The importance of pictures (not just of your junk)
  • Which pictures should be public and which should be kept private
  • Clean your room before taking pictures!  Yes, get rid of the laundry!
  •  Selfies or not?
  • Contacting people: How many emails should you send?

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32: Swinging in the Dust: Burning man

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Burning ManThe "Bliss Bus" settles on the playa at Burning Man, and we record our experiences: Dust, danger ("safety third!") at the "thunder dome", fun at the orgy dome, standing in line in the rain.

But first: Reverent Jon takes "playa confessions" and a BDSM 101 course on the desert with plenty of volunteers, which we interview and spank (not always in that order).

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31: We're on a boat, motha frackers!

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We debrief from our summer's adventures: The various swinger parties we visited, including some from Tangerine's Dream (which we interviewed previously) .

Villain Jon tries a mud-run, breaks his ankle and then uses his "handicap" to get laid.

Then we party in lake of the Ozarks, party cove.  We interview "sexkitten" on the correlation between swingers and their boats.  Mistress SinD has an encounter with a boat propeller, which left a  nasty cut.

After all that, we head for Burning man!

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30: Kama sutra revisited: Lily does India

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Mister Bill interviews Lilly Leithart, who just got back from spending an entire year in India.  She reviews not just the tourist spots, temples and religious rituals, but also tests out the sexual habits and prowess of the locals.  There wasn't a boat, beach or monument that was safe from her exploits.

This month's' recommendation is  "The hidden swing" podcast.

 

 

29: Rope bondage, Kink, Art and kittens with Midori

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Midori is a sexuality author, speaker and educator who teaches about alternative and adventurous sexual practices, including the sensual art of bondage and BDSM. She grew up in Tokyo until her teenage years and was raised with feminist values. Midori has a degree in Psychology from Berkeley University and she served in the US army reserves as an intelligence officer. She's an educator and columnist on adventurous sexuality, is a published book author and has a couple of DVDs available. Her mission as a world traveler in presenting to universities and educational seminars encourages self discovery and personal growth. Midori is a world renowned Shibari rope bondage instructor, kink educator, safer sex practitioner and a sex positive activist. When she's not on tour or instructing sold out classes, Midori is a performing & installation artist in San Francisco. She's also known for being a foodie and has a humorous warm personality. She is well respected for her long time volunteer efforts and fight against AIDS--her goal is to see this decease wiped out and prevent any more loss of friends & family members; Last month she volunteered as a Roadie in the Cycle for Life tour in California.

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28: Valentines in Niagara: Swinger hotel takeover

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xhotfunThe entire Bliss Bringer team descends upon Niagara falls, Ontario for a weekend of swinger fun at the  Valentines in Niagara event.  We demonstrate the "15 minute orgasm" to a packed room of rowdy swingers and train timid (sorta) wives in the art of "female dominance".

Professor Tea works her "queens walk" on the local swingers, with great success and the team takes over the "dungeon"  and starts schooling the swingers in the ways of kink with bondage training and violet wand demonstrations.

Reverend Jon takes up the microphone and gets the naughtiest confessions out: From wide-eyed newbies, to aspiring kinksters, to dual-penetration fanatics, from spankings to screaming orgasms, you get to hear it direct and uncut.
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